女人:10招让你心仪的男人爱上你

Step 1 The first thing you must do is what you could cAll"homework". You must ask around. Find out if he has a Myspace/Facebook/other social networking site. This is great for finding out what he's into, like music/films/general opinions. You can use this information to start up conversations later on.
第一个就是“好问”。问他要互联网的用户名，这样就可以知道他喜欢的音乐，电影，他人生观了，接着就可以根据他的喜好来打岔了。

3 Step 3 Then you must acquire a simple form of communication. For example, the "hi-and-bye-friend", which is exactly as it sounds. Use mutual friends to your advantage here. If you see them talking, go over and join in. Your friend should introduce you, and voila! Now maintain the smiling and greetings every time you see him.
照面熟。见面的时候简单地问候，找内线，打成一团，一起讨论，可以通过你的其他朋友来认识。

4 Step 4 When you next speak to him properly, steer the conversation around to the internet or computers, and ask if he has Instant Messenger.
在经过一番对话之后，试探地问出对方的QQ号，或者手机号。

5 Step 5 After that, you must go the extra mile. Stand out from the crowd. Do small things to get his attention, like if you already know him (albeit vaguely) make sure you are always there for him if he needs someone to talk to or if he needs to borrow something. Does he play sports? If so, you better get your butt on a bleacher with a towel, water bottle, and whatever else he needs. This way you're showing him you like him without telling him.
接着，吸引他的注意力。让他觉得，自己可以随时找你借东西或者聊天。他是否打篮球呢？如果是，那么记得坐在旁边的椅子上，给他递水，拿毛巾，或者其他的。

6 Step 6 Guys like to comfort girls, so let them feel manly! Seize control without them becoming aware by letting him comfort you through a hard time. Allow him think he made you feel better.
每个男人都希望是个男子汉，喜欢安慰弱小的女人。遇到挫折的时候，找他们诉苦，让他们觉得在你心中他们是真正的男人。

7 Step 7 Guys like girls that are always "keeping it real", so be natural. Keep them laughing, smiling, and happy. Don't attention seek or b***h about other people. Except maybe teachers/bosses.
男人喜欢自然不做作的女人。开心地笑，不要在背后说别人的长短，除非是你的老师或者是你的老板。

8 Step 8 Once you get a guy to like you, try to let go a little TINY bit so they can come. Ask your friends for their opinions if he likes you if you cannot tell. Maybe flirt a little with other guys. Play hard-to-get, but always be honest.
当你不是很确定对方是否已经开始喜欢自己的时候，问问身边的朋友，听听他们的意见。可以试着与别的男生调情，让他觉得你不是那么好得手的。

d getting angry at him for stupid stuff, like hitting you with a ball or teasing you, when he means well. If he hurts you physically or emotionally, then it's okay to be angry.
记住不要为一些小事和男人生气，譬如不小心用球砸到你，或者开你的玩笑。如果他确实伤害了你的身体或者是感情，就是另一回事了。

liment him. Guys love this!
最后，记住，男人也是人，他们也喜欢听好话。

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