学会放弃 Learn to Give Up

When we encourage people, we will always tell them not to give up, they can be successful if they insist. “Never give up” have been the inspiring words, people accept them as the positive life attitude. However, sometimes if people insist all the time and never change, these inspiring words are not wise to keep.

当我们鼓励人们，我们总会告诉他们不要放弃，如果坚持下去，就能成功。“不要放弃”已经成为了鼓励用词，人们接受它们，把这当做乐观的生活态度。然而，有时候，如果人们一直坚持，不作出改变，坚持这些励志的词语就不明智了。

People should learn to give up sometimes. Parents think study is very important, so they ask their kids to insist to learn and go to college. But the fact is that not all the kids are good at study, some kids are not interested in study, they are good at other things. Parents should not push their children to go to college, the kids can learn the things they are good at, like cooking, amending cars and so on. Going to college is not the only way to be successful, learning the practical skills also makes them successful. 

有时候人们应该学着去放弃。父母认为学习是很重要的，因此他们要求孩子坚持学习，直到上大学。但是事实上，并不是所有的孩子擅长学习，一些孩子对学习不感兴趣，他们擅长别的东西。父母不应该逼迫孩子上大学，孩子可以学习他们擅长的东西，比如烹饪，修汽车等等。上大学并不是成功的唯一出路，学会使用的技巧同样也能成功。

People must know clearly what they are insisting, if they keep the right direction, they should insist, but if they keep the wrong direction, they need to give up and open another new chapter of their lives.
人们必须清楚知道他们坚持的是什么，如果他们保持的是对的方向，他们应该坚持下去，但是如果他们走的是错误的方向，他们需要放弃，展开人生的新篇章。